Why Community-Centered Housing Is the Future

How We Built Isolation Into Housing

For most of human history, people lived in close proximity to one another — shared courtyards, row houses, village centers. Privacy was a feature of wealth. Common space was the default. Then, in the mid-20th century, American housing policy inverted this. Zoning laws mandated single-family detached homes. The car became the primary vehicle of social life. Suburbs sprawled outward, trading density for space and community for privacy.

The results are measurable. In 1990, 23% of Americans reported having no close friends. By 2021, that number had risen to 49%, according to the Survey Center on American Social Life. This isn't coincidence. It's the predictable outcome of housing design that puts physical barriers between people and builds daily life around private vehicles rather than shared spaces.

Co-Living vs. Co-Buying: Understanding the Difference

When people hear "community-centered housing," they often think of co-living operators like Common or Bungalow — companies that own the property and rent rooms to strangers. Co-buying is fundamentally different, and the distinction matters:

Co-buying gives you the community benefit of shared living without giving up ownership or stability. You're not a tenant in someone else's investment. You are the investor.

What the Research Shows About Intentional Community

Communities designed around shared spaces and chosen neighbors consistently outperform conventional housing on every measurable health and wellbeing metric. The evidence comes from decades of research on cohousing communities in Scandinavia, the Netherlands, and increasingly the United States.

Key findings across multiple studies:

• Residents of intentional communities report 50–70% higher rates of social connection than comparable conventional households
• Cohousing residents report significantly lower rates of depression and anxiety
• Shared meals — even casual ones — are among the single most powerful predictors of life satisfaction across cultures
• Children in community-housing settings show better social development outcomes than peers in isolated single-family homes

Denmark, Germany, and What America Is Starting to Figure Out

Denmark's bofællesskab (co-housing communities) date to the 1970s. Today, roughly 50,000 Danes live in intentional co-housing arrangements — roughly 1% of the country. They consistently report among the highest life satisfaction scores in the world. Germany's Baugruppen model allows groups of households to jointly commission and purchase multi-family buildings — cutting out developer profit margins and enabling genuine community design.

These aren't utopian experiments. They're mainstream housing options in countries that simply chose different zoning and financing frameworks than the United States. Massachusetts, with its housing crisis and progressive policy environment, is beginning to catch up. Zoning reform is expanding density. Co-ownership legal frameworks are being clarified. The infrastructure for community-centered ownership is being built.

What This Means in Practice — in Boston

In Greater Boston, co-buying looks like this: a group of three or four people — who may or may not know each other before matching — purchase a multi-bedroom home together. Each person owns a legal share of the property. They share common areas but have private bedrooms and, in the right properties, private bathrooms. They eat together when they want to and don't when they don't. They make major decisions together under the terms of a co-ownership agreement.

This is not a compromise. For many people, it's preferable to living alone in a smaller, more expensive apartment. It costs less per month. It builds equity. And it addresses the structural loneliness that solo apartment living almost always creates.

Restored Living's matching process is built around compatibility — lifestyle preferences, work schedules, values, social expectations. We don't pair strangers randomly and call it community. We create the conditions for genuine connection and let people choose.

The Direction Things Are Going

The demographics make this clear. Millennials and Gen Z are delaying marriage, having fewer children, and showing higher rates of living alone than any previous generation — alongside the highest rates of reported loneliness. Solo ownership isn't the answer because it's financially impossible for most of them, and even where possible, it often deepens isolation rather than resolving it.

Co-buying is not a trend. It's a return to something older — the understanding that housing is inherently social, and that building a home means building a life with people, not just a financial asset to hold alone.